An Alternative Way to View Emotional Eating

Categories: Blog, Emotional Eating, Pressing RESET, Rory McIlroy Apr 28, 2026

We’ve all heard it—and probably said it—‘I’m just eating my feelings.’ But what if that’s not the full story or even the right one?

Tim and I recently came across a video discussing eating and chewing as a way to soothe the nervous system.  Actually, it was specifically in reference to hearing that Golf Pro Rory McIlroy eats a specific protein bar on the golf course when the stakes are the highest to help regulate his nervous system.

*Let's also shout out to Rory (and his coaches) for the focus on nervous system regulation and the power that it has over performance! We love to see more and more people talking about this stuff!*

The concept is the ability to use eating or chewing to trigger the autonomic system to shift from a sympathetic to a parasympathetic response. 

When the body is stressed, and not feeling 'safe', we are not typically eating, our brain is generally in survival mode.... fight or flight. 

This may offer a new way to view emotional eating.  We are stressed, so we eat, not because we are having cravings for the specific food, but because our brain is looking for ways to soothe so that it can feel safe.

That said, when you're dealing with a client, or even yourself, who can't stop snacking, it might be worth asking: what is the nervous system trying to regulate right now?

While we can't necessarily solve the stressors of our clients and patients, we can certainly educate them on what is happening in their brains and nervous systems.  We can also give some suggestions on how they can try to flip that switch back over in other ways.

So instead of hitting up the pantry when you're feeling stressed/overwhelmed, try going for a short walk, taking some time to do some deep, nasal breathing, rolling, or another reset of your choice, or maybe even humming or chewing gum! 

While chewing gum isn’t for everyone, it can be a surprisingly helpful option when stress starts driving the urge to snack.

Here’s why that works:

Chewing initiates a “rest and digest” response.
When you chew, your brain starts preparing for food and signals your body to move away from the fight-or-flight response.

It supports vagus nerve activity.
The rhythmic motion of chewing can help your body move out of fight-or-flight and back into a parasympathetic state.

It tells your brain: “I’m safe.”
We don’t eat when we’re in danger. So chewing becomes a simple way to remind your nervous system that it’s okay to relax.

Anyways, just thought this was an interesting way to tie in the Original Strength lens, or a nervous system first lens, to see how the system impacts EVERYTHING... even eating! 

 

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